A few weeks ago, I bought a Kindle Paperwhite, and it got me thinking about how I’ve changed as a reader and a book buyer over the years, specifically since I started blogging in 2013. I figured it’d be fun to write a blog post about it – and I’d love to hear about how your reading and book buying habits have changed as well down in the comments!
I’ve always been a reader and I’ve always had books, although I also borrowed many books from the library as a child. When I moved out of my parents’ house in 2012, though, I left most of my books there, since they were mainly children’s novels. In fact, I just realised that I didn’t even have any bookcases in my first student room. Wow, that’s such a weird realisation! I can’t imagine my home without my bookcases now! Back then, I think I had one single shelf, which had my Harry Potter books and maybe a handful of others. Oh, and I think my Twilight boxset was there as well. At that time, I’d just started university, and I don’t think I was reading much besides the novels I had to read for my literature courses. I was too busy with university, making new friends, my first boyfriend – my first heartbreak… Reading just wasn’t a thing I was focusing on back then.
Let’s skip to the summer of 2013 – I had moved into another place a few months previously, and one of the first things that moved in with me there were two brand new, white Billy bookcases from Ikea, which I still own today. My book collection had grown a little bit; mostly with books for university. I had a shelf dedicated to course books, as well as a shelf with all of my cookbooks and baking books. During that summer, I started to read more again and I started to buy more as well. This is also around the time when I really started to discover all of the great YA novels out there. It’s when I read my first John Green novel (The Fault in Our Stars) and The Perks of Being a Wallflower (which I wasn’t a big fan of, sadly). It’s also when I found out about Goodreads and book blogging and I became intrigued.
So, in October 2013, I started this blog. The reason was two-fold: I wanted to write about the books I was reading, but I also wanted to motivate myself to read more for fun, even when university took up a lot of my time (and then there was the baking, of course, but that’s a different conversation). It’s turned out quite well: ever since I started blogging, I’ve read way more than I did previously – and I’ve had such a good time.
Of course, I also started buying way more books. That was partially motivated by the fact that getting new books is exciting – even if you don’t read them straight away (or even years after buying them…). Another reason, however, was that I felt that in order to be a good book blogger, I had to have a lot of books – although I’m not sure if I realised at the time that I was thinking that way. At this point, I also had a Sony e-reader, but I rarely used it; partly because it was an absolute pain in the ass to transfer books on there from my computer, and partly because I simply preferred reading physical books. In the end, I think I only used it a couple of times, mostly for ARC’s (Advanced Readers’ Copies) that I received from publishers. The poor Sony has been gathering dust in a closet for years now.
My book collection started to grow with all of the books I encountered through the book community and my Billy bookcases started to fill up. In 2016, I moved again, and all my books moved with me because why on earth would I get rid of books? I didn’t know about the concept of an unhaul and I loved seeing my shelves get fuller and fuller. At some point, I bought an extra bookcase for my growing collection, which started filling up pretty quickly as well. In comparison to other bloggers and vloggers, I wasn’t buying that many books, but I think that I was definitely buying more than I was reading on a yearly basis – especially when I got a parttime job working at my local bookstore in 2017 and I got a pretty sweet staff discount.
I did start to think a bit more about my ratio of read versus unread books around this time, though, and space for new books was also becoming an issue. Somewhere along the line, my thoughts on unhauling books changed, and when my boyfriend and I moved in to a new apartment together in the summer of 2018, I got rid of a good amount of books that I no longer had any interest in; either because I didn’t want to read them anymore, or because I did read them and didn’t really enjoy them.
I started to look at my shelves differently: for years now, my shelves have been a source of great comfort and joy for me. Just looking at them can make me feel happy and, like I said, I can’t imagine my home without them. But I have grown a little more critical of what should be on those shelves. At the start of 2020, I decided to keep track of my book buying and of whether I was actually reading the books that were already on my shelves. I made a list of all of my unread books (there were 90 of them) and every time I finish one, I get to colour in a box (I love colouring in boxes – it’ll get me to do things). I also keep track of which books I bought, and I’m curious to see how many unread physical books I will have by the end of the year.
I’ve grown much more critical of the books I’m buying this year. Over the years, I’ve bought so many books that have then sat on my shelves for years before I finally read them. There’s nothing wrong with this, but somehow, I’m no longer really comfortable with it. I’ve come to the conclusion that I want to populate my shelves with books I love and not with books that don’t mean much to me or don’t excite me. So, this year I’ve decided that I will only buy physical copies of books that I’m actually really excited to read, either because they’re by a favourite author or because the premise just sounds really good.
That’s also where the Kindle comes in: I can now read books I really do want to read but don’t feel the need to own a physical copy of. If you’d asked me a year ago if I wanted to buy a new e-reader, I would’ve told you “absolutely not, what would I do that for?” Now, however, I realise it can actually enrich my reading life: it’ll allow me to pick up books that I wouldn’t have otherwise just because I didn’t want to fill up my shelves with them. I do have a rule, though: I’m only allowed to buy an ebook if I’m going to read it right away. That way, I’m preventing myself from just buying all the books because they’re cheap and being left with a gazillion unread books on my Kindle. It’s been a pretty solid system so far!
Will I still occasionally be buying books I won’t read until years later? Probably – and that’s fine. But I’m enjoying my new system and I like that I’ve grown a little more aware of my reading and buying habits.
Well, this has become quite a long story, but I enjoyed getting it all down! If you’ve read this far – thanks! I’d love to hear about your evolution as a reader down in the comments. Do you buy a lot of books? Do you mostly use your library? Let me know, so we can chat about it!
17 thoughts on “My Evolution as a Reader and a Book Buyer”
Unhauling books? How’s that.
You should try it some time 😉
What a wonderful post! I would love to chat sometime about changing reading habits.
Thank you so much! 😀
Love your post.
I used to re-read the classics – over and over. I had almost zero interest in any modern books. Occasionally I would read something just because a friend had written it or recommended it.
But since I started writing on WordPress I have come into contact with other writers and I have bought their books to support them. I prefer to buy paperbacks. I love reading them because I have already come to know their style through their blogs, so a longer book is great. Some bloggers only publish kindle versions of their books. I don’t have a kindle, so I have downloaded kindle reader onto my laptop so I could buy their kindle books. The truth is, I find it less enjoyable reading on my laptop.
I love to support other writers, but where possible, I still prefer a book in my hands.
Thank you – I’m glad you liked it!
Ah, that’s a really interesting evolution as well! As a child/teenager I used to reread a lot more as well – there were some books that were simply my favourite and that I would pick up over and over again.
I don’t really enjoy reading on my laptop either – it’s just not very comfortable, is it? An ereader does read very differently, since it has a very different type of screen, but I do still prefer physical books as well! 🙂
I never thought I’d replace physical books with an e-reader until I had an accident in 2012. Long story short, spinal cord compression has made my skin hypersensitive and holding a book and turning the pages became painful. Like you, I’ve always been an avid reader, so for me the e-reader is a must now! I also took up baking and cake decorating around that time, it has great therapeutic qualities! So we have two things in common!
I’m so sorry about your accident – I’m glad you found a way to still be able to read! Ereaders definitely are a great solution. Baking is so therapeutic! I’m glad it helps you too 🙂
I loved reading this! I’ve changed so much as a reader and it’s always funny to me to think back on some of my reading habits and my favorites from years ago.
Also, I love the unread books page in your journal! I need to do that but considering the amount of books I buy as opposed to the amount I read…… makes me nervous lol
Thanks so much! It’s fun to look back, isn’t it? I had such a good time writing this post and reflecting on how I’ve changed! Haha, writing down all of your unread books is a pretty daunting task – and also very confronting!
I love your shelves!!! Really enjoyed this post 🙂 It’s funny because I think about how I had just a small little shelf my aunt gave me in college and not many books on it either bc I didn’t read a ton in college (too much coursework!). And like you, my childhood books were at my parents house. Once I graduated I started reading more and got a big Ikea bookshelf- fast forward 12 years and I have three large Ikea shelves and my original small shelf! I used to buy sooooo many books when I first discovered YA and blogging and I am definitely more critical now. Not enough space, not enough time. I do like preordering and I figure if I do pick a debut that I don’t end up enjoying, I’ve helped the author and I can donate it to another reader. Not the worst. But I am working on cutting down. I also read way more on my kindle now than I ever expected! Started off because I wanted to read New Adult romances and ARCs haha, and now I love reading on my kindle. can’t resist sales for books on my TBR 🙂
Thanks so much, Morgan, I’m glad you enjoyed it! 😀 Sounds like we’ve developed pretty similarly in our reading journeys! I don’t preorder very many books, but maybe I should – it’s a great way to support an author after all! I think I’ll probably give in to the Kindle sales at some point, but right now I’m still trying to stick to my strict one book at a time rule haha. Thanks for your comment! 🙂
I used to buy tons of books. But now go to the library. I wish I could read as much as I used to. With 3 kiddos it isn’t as easy anymore! I love your book shelf system!
Thank you! I can totally imagine having three kids makes it difficult to get a lot of reading done! I hope you’re at least enjoying the books you do get to read! 😀
I try! Thank you!
Wow! Loved loved reading this. My house is also full of books, read many times or unread for years. But still I love to buy and store them. I also read from libraries. Sometimes I panic thinking what would happen if I die without reading the books. Not yet bought Kindle 😊
Thanks Sangeetha, that’s so nice to hear! A house full of books is the most wonderful kind of house, if you ask me. I try not to think too deeply about all of the books I won’t get to read in my lifetime, haha! I do hope to one day be able to read all of the books on my shelves 🙂 Thanks for your lovely comment!